If you’re unhappy with the way things are turning out you can whine about it. Whining will let everyone know where you stand; everyone who agrees with will join you and confirm your opinion. You’ll feel better that you’ve got people with you but nothing will change. If that’s what you want, you may be happy. Until circumstances change around you.

Or you can focus on the things you can influence, and use your energy to make things better.

Whining is easy; working to improve takes more energy is harder but much more satisfying.